Tsk

My life...

I have it good.
I don't worry too much.

Pretty lucky.

There's a couple of co-workers that infer that I am missing out on life because I have no children.
My reply:
I have rockin' nieces and nephews...Thank you.

I tell them that. And they say it isn't the same.
Well, yes, maybe it isn't.
But that's all I know. And guess what...It's a pretty fucking awesome to me & a comforting feeling.

These two women (obviously are unhappy) are not only mothers but single mothers and whine all the time about the fathers not wanting to be in the children's lives.
(I'm thinking it is them, not the children) Look they can't even say D.I.V.O.R.C.E. because those guys weren't stupid enough to get trapped.

Anyways. There really are women like that out there in the work force, trying bring down the single girl.
Yup I'm single but doesn't mean I don't have a good quality of life.

(I NEVER had to deal with this kind of condemnation in high school, why does it bother me now at ?)

This is a series of stupid questions I deal with as I pass by the reception area or company lunches.

You don't have baby fever yet?
You wasting your time with a men who has kids already.
Keep waiting and you will just stay single like us (OUCH)
Just have a baby with any guy...You'll thank me. (Seriously)

Anyways...
SO ....I think about it and my biggest sadness and fear is my sister being ill.
But other than that...I was genuinely happy before.
I mean my struggles in life is fighting over which movie to watch or should I go to the park or sit @ home and NOT lose any weight.
Or made up arguments that mean nothing, until you WIN @ it....hahaha

Yesterday I gave him two ties from Brooks Brothers...I wanted to surprise him. He liked one but hated the other. His exact words were...Thu, it looks like I would be wearing a road.
I was not happy. I told him I needed to get off the phone.
He text me later on and said how he liked the one tie...Nothing about the other.
In my typical Nguyen style, I told him to throw it away.
Then this morning, he was saying why I was being like that. Saying to throw it away.
I didn't even want to talk about it.
Then...When I pull into the office garage...He sends me a picture of him wearing the damn tie.


Okay, it is ugly...
But I won...And I wasn't even trying to win.

See...That's the extent of my problems...lol

Over and out. (Paris and Danielle always tell me...Give that boy a break...But WHY?)
As for the two receptionist...Everyone is worthy...even if they do not have children. Even them for thinking I am not.

I do love that man...I do. But not more than white rice. Not yet.